Friday, March 14, 2008

Snow Outside but Building Inside

Last weekend we had a powerful snow storm which kept us housebound for Saturday and we didn't get shoveled out until 5 minutes before we were leaving for church on Sunday morning. Oh, how we love living in a condo where OTHERS do the shovelling! Here my teddy wreath is looking rather droopy. He's probably freezing.

While the storm raged outside we spent Saturday morning building a closet in our new basement bedroom. We are almost ready for drywalling--saints be praised!--and are very excited about our progress so far. (We are not all that handy.) Here is the door we hung a few nights ago and it's straight!

Here is the wall we built complete with anchoring screws into the cement floor.

Here is the wall that was already there before we started and the door out of the bedroom which we used to know how to hang the new one.

And here, yes, HERE, is the the studding for the closet measured for the lovely doors we've already purchased. Say a prayer that it all fits when we're done, please.

While we were hammering, cutting, screwing (no comments!), measuring and pondering, the weather outside was pretty frightful to be out in but lovely to watch. I opened the front door at night and took these two photos:

Yes, that's snow falling, not a dirty lens!

In the morning we were packed in, but snug and warm so didn't mind. Here is our deck with almost three feet of snow.

And this is out our front door. The street is plowed but our driveway and walk are still waiting.

Here is the snow in front of our garage and I apologize for the lack of artistic quality but it couldn't be helped if I wanted to get a picture of the snow bank there!

Today is Friday and I am really hoping there will be no new snow this weekend. Our winter has been decidedly white--good, usually, but I'm ready for more sun and temps above freezing.

Tuesday, March 11, 2008

Sun and Fog

This morning we opened our blinds to foggy daylight--hoarfrost, my husband said--and I thought of my camera snug in my purse as I drove him to work. We passed a wonderful old cemetary on the way and I noticed the games the sun was playing as it burned off the mist.


This is one time my automatic photo enhancing buttons on my software ruined the effect rather than improving it. I loved the pink glow lighting the icy frosting on the branches.

When I turned away from the east I got sharp and clear shots and the stark black of the trees cut through the soft snowy ice on the branches.

This is the first picture I took with the sun barely skimming the horizon.

And, yet again, I turned to the glorious trees standing strong and still watching over the graves below.

Everyone is having challenges trying to keep the snow plowed for access these days, such a snowy winter we've been having, and the cemetary is no exception. The banks are high and the parking area is substantially reduced with all the piles of white stuff. We are all having to be a little forgiving as the streets have snow piled out into the right lane making four-lane traffic almost impossible. I loved the tree below with its icy crust.

Back in our condo development I took this shot of the sun trying to get to me, so eerie.

And, finally, just to remember the sky a few days ago, here are the same trees just down the street from us. They are bare and frisky in the winter sun, waving at the passing clouds. Under that brilliant blue I felt the same way!

Sunday I had quite a time trying to get my pictures uploaded and after the third try gave up, so I have some more to display another day. See you then!

Friday, March 07, 2008

My Awesome Day

This week has been a milestone one for me although few people know why I am celebrating. Since last April I have been working on my most ambitious writing project ever--a novel. Yes, I have stepped out, up, all over the place to write a historical fiction piece centered around the Loyalists in the American Revolutionary War.

For those of you who don't know the term, Loyalists refers to those who remained loyal to the British in 1776 and beyond, eventually finding their way to Nova Scotia, Quebec and Ontario for the most part. My forebears were among that number; hence, my interest in just what happened or might have happened.

This has been a huge project for me, someone who likes to do short creations for the rush on finishing and the excitement of starting the next new thing. I started my journey by buying a very helpful book about the nuts and bolts of writing a novel and getting it published after our trip to Hilton Head last March, where I found in a wonderful Borders store the perfect how-to book. I needed to know about chapter length, spacing, organizing, types of books, and a million other detail-oriented topics, not to mention about finding a topic for my creative outpouring.

I am a lifelong lover of the creative word as many of my readers will know--remember my 1500-book library?--so that this is a natural progression for me now that I have the time to do it and have learned not to let life get in the way. I remember very clearly sitting on my porch reading a wonderful Children's Lit book by Jean Little and feeling tears welling with the absolute need I had to be able to write like her. And, of course, I did little about it, even having taken a writing course and having had excellent feedback from my professor at Wilfrid Laurier University in Waterloo. I was a teacher, a mother of two wonderful kids and wife to my very own Prince Charming, all of which filled my life. I had no time to write.

Or maybe, more likely, I didn't bother to make the time to write. You know, we women are pretty good at filling our lives doing things for others, and I was no exception.

Over the past year, after my son said to me last March when we were discussing my dream, "Mom, you're sixty years old, you're healthy, you have the time. If you don't do it now, when will you?" all that changed. I have since learned to guard my morning writing time and have stuck to writing three pages a day, five days a week as much as humanly possible, although I did take a three-month hiatus through the nightmarish move time last fall, only starting again in January. Mornings are my best time to write and I absolutely love the energizing feeling of accomplishment I get when the day's pages are done. Conversely, when the muse forsakes me and I just cannot do it (a rare thing) I beat myself up for the rest of the day. I am a person who needs accomplishment for self worth.

This writing marathon has meant far less time for writing my beloved blog and I am sorry for that as marrying my very own pictures to words is some of my best fun.

For today, then, the announcement is that on March 5, Wednesday, I completed my first draft, a wonderful length of 100,623 words or 384 pages in its rough draft format and I am elated. Following the advice of my how-to book and, by now, my own intuition, I printed, saved and saved again, stored one copy offsite and am now going to let it sit for three months before I go at the revisions. This will allow me to get some perspective when I reread the thing and I'll know better what needs to be revised. In the meantime, I am working on short pieces which I will begin submitting to contests and publishers. The most exciting thing? I have no fear of the inevitable rejections I'll face; in fact, I welcome them as necessary steps along my path to publication.

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

Walking In My Neighbourhood

This winter has been unusual for all the snow which we've had and for how long it has stayed--since December! On one of my neighbourhood walks I found this johnny-on-the-spot which proves we're living in a new area. The 'convenience' is right beside a traffic circle and that's an empty lot behind it, probably to be built on this summer. This blue blot on the landscape brings a whole new meaning to 'freezing your butt off'!

Just down our street is a man-made lake, frozen in this picture and hard to see, but it is a lovely spot none-the-less.

Here is our end condo unit the highest elevation on the block allowing us to overlook the small park opposite our front window.

Below I've tried to get a sweeping view opposite the front gate to our condos but I really only managed a glorious winter blue sky and glistening white snow. If you look closely you can see a green flag or two at the gates, flags which have been sorely buffeted about in the wild winds we've had a few times this winter.


I finished my walk approaching our condo from another angle. This end unit is ours with its back deck and trees suffering through winter.


So what do these pictures have in common? Three things, actually. They are all of our condo, there are piles of snow in every one, and--perhaps best of all--the sky is that welcoming, heart-warming colour of blue that is so well offset by snow. I love it! And you won't hear me complaining too much about winter, only about mild, rainy or overcast days. Never about days like I've captured above. Talk about a breath of fresh air!

Sunday, March 02, 2008

A Winter Interlude

The weekend before last my husband and I accompanied friends to their favorite bed and breakfast near Midland Ontario. What glorious weather we had with sun shining and sky beaming blue the whole time. Perfect for snow shoeing and taking pictures.

One lovely surprise was the flock of skittish wild turkeys stealing food from the feeders by the house. I have seen these before a couple of times, but never in such numbers or this close. Very cool.

Here the turkeys sensed me and started to run off.

I love trees in the winter as their wonderful structures are so evident as they parade naked for all to see.
Not being a birder I don't know what this is but he/she flitted back and forth from another feeder on the property. The colours are very striking.

Finally here is the house in which we stayed. They have a separate wing for the guests with three lovely bedrooms, a breakfast room and a fireplace sitting area, outside of which is a private hot tub in a cute arbor-type arrangement. Of course we had a soak on Saturday night although the west wind chased us indoors fairly quickly.

Donna was the name of the chatelaine of this lovely home and she well deserves the title. The food was superb, the accommodations very comfortable and the setting very restful. A great weekend getaway.

Wednesday, February 27, 2008

She's Here!

This morning at 7 a.m. we got a call from our son-in-law with the wonderful news that our baby granddaughter has arrived. Chelsea Paige is her name and she made her appearance just after 12:30 a.m. today, February 27. She weighed 8 pounds 12 ounces and a bit, a lovely weight for a baby as they're big enough you don't think you'll lose them in a pocket!

I hope I have the numbers relatively correct as I was pretty excited and may have muddled a bit. I so want to talk to my daughter just now but she is in Victoria and I am in Ontario so that isn't possible just yet. Having a granddaughter is pretty wonderful, especially now that we can put a name to her.

Last night I was working on finishing a cute little sweater for her but little did I know her mother was in labour as I was swearing over my knitting. I had purled almost a whole row when it should have been k2, p2 rib and I had to rip it out. Not a problem usually except the wool is a variegated colour with blues, greens and yellows as well as being very nubby. I could not see where the stitches were at all and ended up breaking the yarn inadvertently at one point. Ripping back about 40 stitches took me about 40 minutes. I did, however, finally get the collar ribbed properly while American Idols rollicked seventies music on the tv.

Today I will have lots of exciting things to do, calling people with the news, ordering a pink rose for my daughter and her daughter, to be sent to the hospital where they'll be for 48 hours. I am glad of that as she needs a little tlc for a couple of days, I'm sure. Anyhow, time to start the process. Hope everyone is up!

Tuesday, February 05, 2008

It's Happened Again!

Serendipity. It's happened again. Not to me this time but I heard about it almost immediately through the magic of worldwide communication.

I just got an email from my sister-in-law here in Canada and she told me she had just had a call from her erstwhile sort of son-in-law who is in Dominican Republic on a holiday. He was in a grocery store shopping when he heard someone call his name and turned around to meet my sister, also in Dominican on a mission trip for two weeks. What are the chances of them both being so far away in the same place at the same time?

Years ago after we had all graduated from university one of my residence friends took off on a year long trip to Europe and we all kind of lost touch for a bit. Remember this was before the Internet so when someone went on a trip we had no communication other than telephone, very costly, and letters, very slow. On her honeymoon one of my other friends and her new husband were in the Louvre in Paris when they turned a corner and there was Kristen, studying a painting.

And have you ever picked up the phone to call someone, found dead air, tentatively said "Hello?" only to have that person you were calling be on the phone already, calling you? It is a little freaky if you think about it. Is there another dimension out there where some master puppeteer is pulling our strings, enjoying himself, or herself even, chuckling away at our puny abilities? Makes you kind of wonder, doesn't it?

Wednesday, January 09, 2008

Musings

While I'm not really doing a year in review, I am giving up a few photos from the last couple of months of 2007. This was the view from our hotel window in Beckley, West Virginia, back in November when we travelled to Hilton Head. I just loved the rich variety of colour still glowing even that late in the season, and the early morning mist makes it look like I used some kind of a filter, which I didn't being not that great a photographer.




Here is the picture of my lovely piano sitting in our former living room. I had snapped this to accompany my email to friends and family of things I had to sell before the move.


And here is the same piano, same picture in our new condo. Oh, I had a buyer for the piano but a couple of weeks before the move my husband heard me playing and told me later we just had to keep that piano. I'm not sure which gives me more pleasure--knowing that my husband sensed the great loss I would feel when the piano left my life, or actually still having my beloved piano which I stripped and refinished when I was pregnant with Beth, oh so many years ago.


Back on the beach at Grande Ocean, Hilton Head, I was captivated by this forlorn chair left facing the sunset, empty in the cold, as though bracing for the long night to come.

In Sea Pines once more I crept close to this bird who seemed in a bit of a tizzy but never flew off.

He is on the edge of a lovely lake so rich in swampy stuff it looks like land in these shots. Nature is fascinating. How can my eyes see one thing and the picture show something else?



Today the sun is shining and all our snow has gone except for the old dirty pile across the street from my window. I look forward to the day when the large dumpsters that the construction guys have parked will be taken away and we'll just have a lovely little park to look at.


And here is the same view a few short days ago. The temperature soared to about 10 Celsius above freezing and all our lovely snow melted away.




Never mind. More is coming.

Monday, January 07, 2008

Our New Home

Today, my readers, I am giving you some pictures of our new place, and I hope you enjoy the visit. Of course those of you nearby should just get yourselves over and see us (and the digs) for yourselves!
Right outside our condo is this beautiful light standard, a beacon for friends to follow and find us. And we are the end condo so we have lots of yard where our future grandchildren can play safely behind the brick wall and the lovely shrubs.


Our back deck looks up the most beautiful street of very lovely homes. I tell everyone we live in the 'row housing'--poor cousins of these single family palaces.


Here is another view of the same street:


Inside we have the largest clothes closet we've ever had, a walk-in with room for all my shoes on wonderful sloped shelves I found a couple of months ago and just kept boxed till we finally moved here. I am proud to say today there are no more boxes waiting patiently for unpacking so the carpeted floor is clear. What luxury!


And, yes, this is my new office, a lovely airy space facing west and beautifully lit with the setting sun. We almost need to put a couple of easy chairs in here just to watch the day end, it is so stunning.

On one wall I have my keyboard watched over by one of my framed photos of Hilton Head.

Here is the piece de resistance where all my work (and play) takes place. Here I write, I upload photos, I reconcile my bank accounts, I compose music on my software, and--oh, I hate to admit it!--I play computer games to while away empty moments. You can see I still have some photos to hang and a box to finish emptying but really most everything is in its rightful place in the whole condo. I do like order.

I hope soon to have a great announcement of a secret project on which I have been working since last April. This is where I do it. Stay tuned for its birth!

Monday, December 24, 2007

Dreaming Up North

Yesterday I decorated our first 'real' tree in 25 years and a sorry tree it was, but not as sorry as what I found this morning. Grrr. Next year I'll go back to a perfect artificial tree, I think!

Here's our living room area in the new condo. We'll be getting blinds and area rugs as soon as we can but it looks lovely so far.

The main bathroom sports a shower and a large tub--haven't had a soak yet--as well as two sinks!


One day a couple of weeks ago I was sitting waiting for my husband and I spied this dog who looked for all the world as though he was driving that little Jeep(?). He sat there as long as I did never moving a muscle as I started up my car, drove closer, wrestled with my camera and finally caught him.

A few days before we moved, our daughter asked for a picture of the old post in the basement where we put our children's heights over a number of years, and after a few tries and some major Photoshop magic, here is the best I could do. I guess we'll remember the idea as much as the actual post writings as they are pretty illegible. Nevertheless, this one's for you, Beth!

As I lay in bed this morning I thought of my mother and how she always sang the verse of White Christmas on this day every year--

The sun is shining, the grass is green, the olive and palm trees sway./There's never been such a day in Beverly Hills LA/For it's December the twenty-fourth and I am dreaming that I'm up north....

--and how I loved that there was an actual song for this day! December 24th. Christmas Eve. Today I'll be cooking a lovely little turkey just for us two before we go to sing one last time in our country church Christmas Eve service. After this we'll be finding a new church, part of the new adventure here in the 'big city'!

Have a wonderful Christmas, everyone!

Snow in Ontario

Here is the picture from our bedroom window last weekend when we were homeless and our son took us in:



Looking out the kitchen doors I saw the barbecue snowed in:


And here's some of the back yard:




How about a sunny destination now, eh?

Saturday, December 22, 2007

New Condo Post--Finally!

Today's post will let you all know where I've been for the last two weeks. Yes, we've been moving but the story is unfortunately so much bigger.

As I sit in my new office gazing at the setting sun through windows without curtains, I am finally able to outline our travails. The last few days before moving we were lucky to be invited out to eat or to just go to a restaurant as more and more dishes and necessities found their way into boxes whose stacks began to threaten us as we did our countdown to M-Day. Three more sleeps, two more sleeps, last night, and inevitably the big day came.

Sunny it was in the morning as the four moving guys trekked in and out of our home, stripping it of our possessions and rendering it an unrecognizable space, a whole lot easier to say goodbye to! Finally they were gone, my husband was off to an important business meeting and I was left alone with my vacuum, my cleaning supplies, and my memories. One last time to shine up the space and I would be gone. A bit sad, but I controlled my urge to weep, left all the extra keys on the counter for the new folks, did a final walkthrough and slipped out the side door of the garage locking everything behind me as I went.

Where to go? I still hadn't gotten THE CALL from our lawyer saying all the deals had gone through and I could pick up the keys to our condo. I headed over to her office, talked her into giving me the keys with a solemn promise I wouldn't go in until I heard from them, and drove under darkening skies the 25 minutes to Woodstock and our office where I had things to pick up to take to our condo. Once I had the car loaded up I headed for our condo, confident THE CALL was imminent. I sat in the driveway a couple of minutes but didn't dare go in. Along came someone from the development who insisted I could come inside and wait--he knew me and thought the thing would be closed in a matter of minutes. By this time it was 3:45 p.m. and the clock was ticking down to 5:00 when the registry office would close.

I hadn't been inside long wandering around my new place when my brother-in-law called and I told him what I was doing and that the movers were sitting in their yard waiting to get the call from me that they could come and unload. Through my many calls to the lawyer, my husband, whom I picked up, our son, and my two brothers-in-law, the clock moved in its dogged fashion towards 5 pm and still no closing. We learned there had been 6 properties to flip that day and our sale and purchase were the last of the six. My husband was in contact with the lawyer and finally at 5:30 came into the front office-to-be room and told us the deal didn't close in time. What to do?

The lawyer was trying to contact the builder to get us in anyhow but of course everyone had gone home. By 6:30 we realized we had no choice but to leave, lock up the condo, sadly back out of the place and go to my sister's place for some wonderful chili. Of course we had several offers of places to sleep and thankfully accepted that of our son and daughter-in-law; back to Norwich we went and bunked up with them.

So already this is a bad story but it gets worse. We had both contracted a nasty cold, Ron about a week before me, and mine had moved to the coughing up my lungs part, especially at night, necessitating us sleeping separately. He ended up on the couch and I slept nun-like in the double bed, coughing ya da ya da ya da. Thank goodness for family, though, as we were warm and toasty when the storm of the year hit over Saturday night, although Ron had cause to bemoan the loss of his garage as several times the next day he shovelled snow off the three vehicles in son's driveway! (I stayed in the house, coughing .......)

Finally Monday morning was upon us and early in the morning Ron and I tiptoed out of son's house, loaded up our two grocery bags of possessions--Oh! I forgot to tell you we had nothing to wear, rub or change on our bodies, so Saturday had hit Wal-Mart for some trendy Eastern fashion items. (Read cheap, made in China stuff.) Anyhow we headed for Woodstock, ate breakfast of trucker-type early morning bacon and eggs, clog your arteries fare--we waited outside for the door to open--and then put in some time at the office till 9:30. By then we had heard nothing so gave the lawyer a call.

Her assistant was busy trying to get the bonus money for us that the other side had promised in order that we would let them into our former house even though the deal hadn't closed. I regret to say I did a little freak and suggested she would be wise to get us into our property immediately as I had already rescheduled phone, water softener, blinds, dishwasher people and I was not in a mood to reschedule again. She took the hint, I loaded up the car, did a couple of errands and drove up to our condo. By 10:59 a.m. I was once again parked in the driveway hoping to get the call, and the irony of being in the exact place where I had been three days before, and the outcome, made me a little nervous.

At 11:00 on the dot the cell phone rang and it was Judy. The deal was finally closed. I could relax. I turned off the cell phone just as the superintendent of the complex drove up in his truck. I told him the news before I even had a chance to call Ron. Finally the wait was over. I let myself into the front door and breathed in the air of our new home. Then I called Ron.

Of course the waiting was not over as the mover could not offload our stuff till Tuesday morning so we stayed with our son once more, ever so thankful to have a roof over our heads. In the morning the movers met us at the new condo and the claim staking began. Oh, not before I had a bit of a scare, though. Before the movers came I was in the basement, heard a noise and turned to stare at a strange man in my house. "Did someone let you in?" I asked. "The door was open so I just came in," he answered. And I lost no time telling him how unacceptable that was. He quickly did his little worker thing and apologized his way out the door again.

For four hours I stood at my new front door directing movers where to take things, freezing and hacking up my guts all the while. Then, in the afternoon, two of my best friends came and helped me attack the huge kitchen unpacking job. The place looked disastrous for a couple of days until we finally got the first floor looking like home. Today Ron has even hung some pictures, we have a Christmas tree (undecorated as yet) in the corner, and we've had a couple of lovely quiet meals in our new space. It is wonderful.

And so, our saga continues in a new space, a new place, a new home. Yes, it is home, now. And we have nowhere to go but onward. Yay!

Monday, December 10, 2007

Moving Week

Monday dawned at its dark December time this morning and I lay in bed thinking of this last week in our house. I thought I was great about leaving this spot where we raised our kids and spent so much of our married lives, but little niggling things poked at my thoughts as I watched the room come into focus with the first threads of dawn. The curtains parted ever so slightly as my eyes made out the romanesque pattern of my handmade drapes which I'll be leaving behind; the ceiling that we painted a shade or two darker than the walls to help us sleep longer in the summer months; the empty screw sockets in the walls where used to hang our joint pictures from 1965; and the burnished tones of our amazing dimmer light on the ceiling. All will be different in the new condo.

I blinked my eyes and tried to remember what the condo will look like. The great room is maple hardwood flooring, the kitchen has loads of cupboards just a little darker than the floor. The bedroom carpets are a soft shade midway between white and beige and the bathroom has a lovely ceramic tile. It is all very beautiful, but the first time in my life I have ever chosen beige in any of my homes. Who says we're too old to change?

My thoughts came back to this day, one of the last in our house, and I realized if I just got up and got started, soon I would be one day closer to being in the new place and I'd be unpacking and putting everything in its place, building yet another nest for my sweetie and me. We still have a lot of living to do and are pretty excited to be starting anew once again. Hold that thought, eh?

Friday, December 07, 2007

The Softer Side of the Year

Today is a short post as I celebrate with you the softer side of the year--the time when friends stop on the street to spread Christmas greetings, when neighbours share a cup of cocoa or some fresh-baked cookies, when we all have something to think about other than our busy rushing lives. The kids are cuter, the lights are brighter and the smiles are gentler. There's a softer spot in my heart, for sure.

Click on the link below for a lovely soft oasis of good feeling.

http://ecard.ashland.edu/2004admission/index.html

Happy Holidays, Everyone!